Thursday, 14 October 2021
Review: Queen of Walking (2016)
Wednesday, 13 October 2021
Review: Exit (2019)
----- this review written on 23rd July 2020 on my personal Facebook account and altered a bit ------
Saturday, 2 October 2021
Pink vs Blue
Sometimes I don't believe in gender ideology that people been talking in social media
"Girls be like.."
"Guys be like.."
"If a woman said ..... that means they want..."
"Guy always.. but woman usually..."
Nahhh
It's not always true
Somehow, this gender principle could rescue a person from getting accused
and sometimes, it also become a reason for someone who is false to escape
just by raising their gender-card
I have always always always heard people been joking around..
"woman always right"
I wrote 'always' for 3 times due to how frequent it happened
There is a looot of memes and clip referring to this longtime gender-conjecture
I honestly okay with that and I can join them to laugh over the memes
rather than pull out my pouting face
I'm not offended to that cuz I knew, it's not about me
Somehow I was questioning, is it true?
Is it true that woman always want to be oways right and hardly admit their mistake
and at last making guy seems wronged in so many cases?
Every time I come across this hypothesis, I end up laugh!
Cuz you know what?
I happened to encounter the opposite scenario
I did face some scenarios when man refuse to let their fault, busted
They always wanted to appear perfect and clean
I'm not even joking when i said this cuz it legit happened around me these days
They seems completely plague that some people might knew
that they did mistakes while in fact,
they obviously accidentally did the mistake
They don't want some particular people to found out that they are wronged
The funnier part is, the reason they don't want people to know their weakness
is not because they afraid of getting mad but it is because they can't accept that they are wronged
So why did people said woman always want to be right
while woman are so fragile and softer than man
I mean, in term of acceptance, I saw more cases when woman seems to surrender and let man win
Cuz they said that man is surround by egocentric behavior
Have u even seen man continuously say sorry repeatedly?
I rarely see that but I did saw a looot of woman say.."sorry 100x" when they accidentally making small clumsy mistake
This apologetic manner seems close related to woman, not man
So how and why did the gender theory of "woman always right" still circulated among us? *weird
As for me, I think the more I try to prove the point that I was right,
the more I think that I'm acting stupid
So I end up say sorry to wrap up the case
And some guys I knew, they easily apologize to not prolong the arguments
They more likely to let woman win just because they don't want to lose their woman
over a small argument
But in some cases, I personally prefer to have an intelligent and fair discussion and
a man cannot easily let a crucial things slide cuz it is unhealthy in social in moral context
If a woman is wronged, man should point it out in an acceptable manner
It might takes a couple of moments for a woman to accept
But still, it is a basic rules in life
Do mistake > apologize > reconciliation
Regardless the gender, this steps cannot be taking lightly
Back to "who is wrong" issue, I need to throw 2 questions
First:
is woman are always give up and take the blame and
is man always refuse to admit their fault?
Second:
is woman always want to be right and
is all man being tolerance most of the time?
Maybe some theory or scientific research could prove that
but still we don't need to stick on that like it is a holy book
and refer to it solely like a cult
After all, everything depends on one's personality and perhaps maturity?
If he responds that way, yes because he is he
not because he is a guy
If she react like this, it is due to her character, not because she is a girl
You got what I mean? 🙆