Imagine if someone having no one to adore
How boring is that
People can accidentally having crush or stan someone
Either it is an instant or forever
They could be anyone
They might be your old friend, an ordinary person who also knows you, an unknown celebrity, a star,
an expert in your favorite field, an art person, an athlete or any pretty soul in this world
But when you have crush or become an avid fan,
u suppose to have only ONE and be loyal
Getting to know more about that only one person require a lot of effort
So how if there is more than one?
In my own theory, someone can't have more than one crush at the same time
Then it's not consider as 'crush'
and u can't claim yourself as an avid fan either
u mere "liking someone" and it might change with time
You can like a lot of people out there
But when it comes to that particular person, you got no chill
u stalk and getting knowing everything about that 1 person
u do it without any external force
What an exuberant fellas!
Living a life to the fullest
u just enjoying and embracing that feelings
The satisfactory of having a lot of fact about that person in your mind is unexplainable
u just feel proud even no one even bother that achievement
Little that they know, the admiration can electrify a sullen life!
When your heart fluttering occasionally
u feel thrilled
Your eyes lit up just by looking at that one person
u can't help
The time suddenly pausing
Your face might seems emotionless in public
But it was an orchestra performing inside
Probably falsetto in there
Unidentified
u just can't stop smiling in your mind
But the things is, is it okay to adore someone to that extent?
Theoretically, these mental and emotion state is related to the physicals state as well
Like..we can't deny science right?
"Happy Hormone" anyone?
Who will refuse?
I am in!!
People eat sweet things in the morning to increase sugar level in their body
Eating sweet things can make someone happy and it igniting a solemn day
But some people seems having their happy pills already
They need to checking on someone and it is enough for them to be happy for that day
When we attracted to another person,
our brain releases dopamine, our serotonin levels increase, and oxytocin is produced
The positive emotion suddenly budding
without us even realizing
That is why we think, it's okay to adore someone
Without aware the consequences, we just continuing loving them
Most of time, people can't even define and explain their feelings
They are trapped between reality and dream
It is dangerous when they can't control that and it might harm them someday
While they are not noticing, sorrowful might slowly falling upon them
They become so vulnerable
People should know how to handle the feelings
We should know the limit how far can we go with that feelings
Probably we need to define our own phase of adoring someone
Having a crush doesn't mean that u need to be with them
It doesn't have to be a happy ending
u still can adore them and watching them from far
With a hope that they will always be in glory and happiness
Seeing them keep up with the good work
When they are coming up with new pieces in their life,
u are waiting patiently with full anticipation
and u can continue enjoying their outcome
That is the true happy ending!
How about become someone's crush?
That fool!
Naïve as usual.
It's fascinating how naïve they are
They having no idea how much other people look up to them
They never knew how their words and actions inspired others in silent
How other people out there cherish and hold up the courage that they showered to others,
& live up in life with that piece of wisdom they had once given.
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